{"schemaVersion":"1.0","guide":{"id":"phone-free-catch-up","title":"A phone-light evening with friends","published":true,"label":"Make yourself at home","setting":"anywhere","description":"Agree on a short stretch of focused conversation with phones silenced or put aside by choice. Keep essential calls and caregiving needs easy to handle.","tags":["home","phone","free","catch","up"],"answer":"Agree on a short stretch of focused conversation with phones silenced or put aside by choice. Keep essential calls and caregiving needs easy to handle. The goal is more attention, not policing each other.","duration":"Suggested: 90 minutes","budget":"No activity purchase required","budgetDetail":"No activity purchase required. This is a suggested spending arrangement, not a current price quote. Agree on the total and any contributions before anyone buys supplies or commits to a venue.","goodFor":"Friends who want a small, comfortable gathering with a clear finish.","considerInstead":"A shared walk with phones in pockets. A change of scene can help, but walking and weather may not suit everyone.","options":[{"name":"A phone-light evening with friends","fit":"Begin with a specific question about everyone's week, then let the conversation develop naturally.","cost":"No activity purchase required","tradeoff":"Confirm anyone who needs to remain reachable can do so without explanation."},{"name":"A shared walk with phones in pockets","fit":"A change of scene can help, but walking and weather may not suit everyone.","cost":"Agree on any supplies, travel, food, or access costs separately.","tradeoff":"This changes the format of the main plan. Confirm that the group prefers it before replacing the original link."}],"steps":[{"label":"Before inviting","title":"Set up the plan","detail":"Name the end time and make exceptions explicit before suggesting a phone basket."},{"label":"Together","title":"Give the activity room","detail":"Begin with a specific question about everyone's week, then let the conversation develop naturally."},{"label":"A good ending","title":"Finish without pressure","detail":"Check messages at the agreed break and decide whether to keep talking."}],"details":[{"heading":"Choose the version that fits","text":"A shared walk with phones in pockets. A change of scene can help, but walking and weather may not suit everyone."},{"heading":"Make the link useful","text":"Name the end time and make exceptions explicit before suggesting a phone basket. Include the date, start and finish, meeting point or call link, and the spending arrangement. The suggested duration is a starting point you can change."}],"checks":["Confirm anyone who needs to remain reachable can do so without explanation.","Confirm the headcount, date, and finish time before making purchases or reservations."],"faq":[{"question":"Should we collect everybody's phone?","answer":"Only if people want that; silencing notifications or placing a phone face down is a simpler choice."},{"question":"What should we confirm before making this definite?","answer":"Confirm anyone who needs to remain reachable can do so without explanation. Name the end time and make exceptions explicit before suggesting a phone basket."}],"sourceIds":[],"related":["tea-and-a-short-story","puzzle-night-with-friends","board-games-for-newcomers"],"seed":"A phone-light evening with friends. Name the end time and make exceptions explicit before suggesting a phone basket. 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Durations and budgets are suggested choices. Not live inventory, a booking or a completed outing.","access":"Anyone can read. Creating a room follows existing organizer-access requirements."}}